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La Vida Buena
BUENOS AIRES
by Mark Chesnut
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The handsome young man pressed close to the older gentleman on Florida Street, their feet carefully intertwined, their hands clasped together. The music seemed to dictate precisely their every move. The young man’s steady gaze was focused, passionate, as he countered each step his companion made. Passersby on the street stopped and watched, smiling and clapping when they were done. In Buenos Aires, it’s not uncommon to see two men dance tango together. Even on busy pedestrian shopping streets in the center of town, people perform the dance that is synonymous with the city.

Born just before the turn of the 20th Century, the sensuous moves of tango were initially too scandalous for even female prostitutes, forcing men in the poorer immigrant neighborhoods to practice together.

After World War I, the dance started to catch on internationally, helped in no small part by the silky voice of Carlos Gardel, the nation’s most popular tango singer. Whether he was gay or not is still open to debate, but the music and dance he helped make famous continue as a tradition in Argentina’s capital—and today you can even enjoy it in an ever-increasing gay environment.

“The Paris of Latin America has everything, and at less than half the price of any top city in the world,” according to Facundo Yebne, manager of Friendly Apartments, a gay apartment rental service. “You can go to a stylish restaurant with first-class service and good wine for $10 to $15. You can marvel at an opera at one of the best theaters of the world, the Teatro Colón, for $5 to $35.”

Indeed, after years as one of the most expensive destinations in Latin America, Argentina suffered an economic collapse in 2001. One of the few positive things to come from the nation’s economic difficulties has been the explosive growth of tourism, which has helped to stabilize parts of the economy and grow some businesses.

A more favorable exchange rate has encouraged visitors to finally get to know the “Paris of Latin America” — a fact eagerly promoted by anyone even remotely involved with the local travel industry. Like Yebne, other local Porteños are quick to note that Buenos Aires is now an ideal vacation destination. Vacationers who’d only dreamed of staying in five-star hotels can afford a luxury vacation in a European-style capital city, at half the price.

This opportunity hasn’t been lost on gay and lesbian travelers, who enjoy the city’s sophisticated infrastructure of gay-owned and gay-friendly accommodations, restaurants, nightlife, and stores.

“We’re the number one gay destination in Latin America now,” claims Kevin Rodriguez, the New Jersey-born owner of Empire Thai, a trendy restaurant in the center of Buenos Aires. “We beat Rio. We used to be too expensive, but now everyone’s been to Rio and Buenos Aires is cheap.”

A North American expat, Rodriguez moved from New Jersey to Buenos Aires in 1996, after working for years in New York City’s banking industry. He’d already visited Buenos Aires and liked it so much he decided to call it home. About three years ago, he opened Empire Thai, a gay-friendly restaurant/bar in the city center whose name and logo are a nod to his U.S. roots. Rodriguez decided the city needed an upscale Thai restaurant because in general, Porteños “eat the three p’s: pasta, pizza, and parrilla [grilled beef]. They needed something a little different here.” Rodriguez loves his life in Buenos Aires—the people, the culture, the history, and, he adds enthusiastically: “Have you seen the men here?”

Buenos Aires wasn’t always a magnet for gay vacationers. For nearly 300 years after its founding in the 1500’s, it barely attracted the attention of straight people either, taking a backseat to more important centers of trade in the Spanish empire. In 1776 Buenos Aires became the capital of the new Viceroyalty of the Rio de la Plata, and after Argentina’s independence from Spain in 1816 began its climb to become one of the wealthiest cities in the hemisphere. During the 1930’s, colonial-era streets disappeared as the government sought to create European-style grandeur with wide boulevards and sweeping vistas that still exist today.

The following years brought dramatic ups and downs. A series of military coups in 1943 and 1944 led to the rise of Col. Juan Domingo Perón, whose popularity with the working class was boosted by the charisma of his wife Eva, a minor actress with humble roots (Evita was her nickname).

Perón’s presidency, which began in 1946, was marked by the nationalization of many resources and the initiation of populist programs to help the poor, coupled with restriction of free speech and the suppression of critics. Evita expressed an interest in holding political office, but died in 1952 at age 33. Still loved by many, her image can be seen throughout the city.

Perón’s next wife, Isabel Martínez de Perón, actually achieved some of Evita’s goals, but without the public admiration. Peronism, as her husband’s political approach was named, sharply divided the nation, but continued to enjoy support even after a military coup overthrew Perón in 1955. Perón returned from exile in 1973 to resume as president, with Isabel as vice president. After he died in 1974, Isabel became the nation’s first female president (and the first to have started out as a cabaret dancer), but Isabel’s presidency lasted only until 1976 when she was deposed by a military junta, detained for five years, and then sent into exile where she still lives today.

Isabel’s overthrow was followed by one of the darkest periods in the nation’s history. Military leaders began what is known as the “Dirty War,” banning the free press, political parties, and worker strikes, and dissolving the Congress. As many as 30,000 political opponents disappeared. My friend Ivan, who traveled to Buenos Aires frequently in the 1970’s, told me how it was not uncommon for a black Ford Falcon to stop in front of an expensive restaurant as military operatives would swoop in, forcibly and silently remove one of the restaurant’s patrons, and disappear into the night.

The military dictatorship, which faced ever-decreasing public support, ended with the democratic election of Raúl Alfonsín as president in 1983. It wasn’t until 2000, however, that President Fernando de la Rúa finally purged the army and state intelligence agency of the last suspected participants in the Dirty War. Still, to this day, many of the disappeared are unaccounted for. Aging mothers and grandmothers still march with photos of their missing relatives. The period remains a painful part of Argentina’s recent history, and debate continues about how best to commemorate the missing.

By 2001, inflation and unemployment were wreaking havoc on the country and crowds rushed local banks as depositors frantically attempted to access their money. Nationwide food riots and demonstrations led president Fernando de la Rúa to resign.

It wasn’t until 2003, when Nestor Carlos Kirchner was elected president, that the economy began showing some signs of stabilization. Kirchner succeeded in gaining favorable terms from the International Monetary Fund for refinancing Argentina’s debt. Unemployment sank from nearly 20 percent to about 13 percent. While predictions for the future are bright, the state of the economy remains at the forefront of Argentina’s problems.

To find out more about Argentina’s complex history and current political climate, check out The Argentina Reader: History, Culture, Politics, edited by Gabriela Nouzeilles and Graciela R. Montaldo (Duke University Press, 2003) and Buenos Aires: A Cultural and Literary Companion by Jason Wilson (Interlink Books, 1999).

At first I don’t notice that the guy who is showing us to our table at La Barbería, a sidewalk restaurant dating to 1927, has finely plucked eyebrows and a rather feminine gait. By the time I do, “Moira” is already mentioning that he sometimes does drag shows at this old-fashioned restaurant in the neighborhood called La Boca. “But I don’t do shows right now, because I’ve gotten chubby,” he says, so instead we watch an attractive male-female couple ply the wooden dance floor as we enjoy gourmet pizza under the springtime sun.

Whether or not Moira is performing, La Boca is one of the neighborhoods that you must visit to get a sense of the history of Buenos Aires, a sprawling metropolis that today boasts some 12 million inhabitants. A port area where many Italian immigrants arrived decades ago, it is today a touristy place with vendors creating hand-painted artwork and cotton and silk scarves in front of brightly painted buildings.

Many of the sites in Buenos Aires can be seen on foot or on gay-friendly guided tours. Pride Travel, founded in 2003 by travel expert Carlos Melía, is one of the gay-owned companies offering a variety of packages and services to gay and lesbian travelers. A true entrepreneur, Meliá seems to have his finger on the pulse of just about everything in gay Buenos Aires. “Buenos Aires has something for everyone,” he tells me, and his business ventures make it easier to find what you’re looking for; he also works as an independent tour guide and publishes La Ronda, a handy, free, pocket guide to gay life in the city.

Since I’d already visited several times before, I decided to take my boyfriend on a self-guided tour using inexpensive black-and-yellow taxis. Many destinations in the city can be reached for $2 or less (the taxi drivers here do not expect tips, although most people will round up a bit as a sign of appreciation). Another good transportation option is the city’s efficient Subte (subway) system, which costs less than 70 cents.

From La Boca, it’s a short taxi ride to San Telmo, a neighborhood with narrow cobbled streets lined with countless antique shops. We take a seat at an outdoor café on the plaza and enjoy some live music before continuing our exploration. One of the oldest neighborhoods in the city, San Telmo also has interesting restaurants including La Farmacia, a funky, gay-friendly place with original art hanging on the walls. San Telmo is also home to Lugar Gay, the creatively remodeled gay men’s B&B that sometimes hosts gay tango classes.

From San Telmo we taxi over to Puerto Madero, the attractively redeveloped waterfront mostly filled with upscale restaurants, offices, and apartments.

In the very center of the city are some of the most popular sites. The Plaza de Mayo is a city square anchored by the Casa Rosada (Pink House), the presidential palace from which Evita once spoke to the people of Argentina. It houses an interesting museum dedicated to presidential history. The Catedral Metropolitano (Metropolitan Cathedral), which looks more like a bank from the outside, has an ornate interior and the tomb of General San Martín, liberator of Argentina. After paying our respects, we walk a few blocks to Café Tortoni, an historic and beautiful coffee shop that dates to 1858.

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