CHARLES
KIMBALL
Founder
of gay napa getaways
by Joseph Schmitt

Its easy to strike up a fast friendship
with Charles Kimball, as I did during a recent visit
to the charming town of Calistoga, in California wine
country. His friendly demeanor, love of travel, and
passion for California led to hours of stimulating conversation
over several bottles at Calistogas newest social
gathering place, Solbar at Solage. Learning of his unique
business, as a Napa and Sonoma County concierge for
gay visitors, our initial conversation quickly transformed
into a two-day adventure to some of Napas most
beautiful and out-of-the-way wineries.
Everyone has a story to tell, and Charles Kimballs has
an interesting beginning. Kimball told me that he was
born into the service and hospitality industry, quite
literally. When his mother returned to New Hampshire
after working as a nurse on a hospital ship off the
coast of Italy during World War II, she opened a convalescent
home in the familys twenty-room Victorian house.
With his father employed as the town plumber, baby Kimball
came home from the hospital to a larger-than-average
pride of awaiting grandparents. Living with ten
elderly residents in our huge Victorian home taught
me a great appreciation for older people and molded
me into an outgoing, people-oriented person, notes
Kimball.
Despite the eccentric yet loving environment
of his youth, Kimball had wanderlust in his soul, even
at a very young age. He says he owes part of this to
his parents. My parents valued travel as an education,
and allowed me the freedom to explore, traveling the
east coast while still in high school. I realized at
a young age that the best education for me was to travel
and learn from others. Starting at sixteen, I worked
in the hospitality business as a waiter serving the
masses food and working with groups of tourists. For
my age, I was making a great income and was able to
eat in fine restaurants and travel often to Boston to
experience the great food and hotels in that fine city.
During high school, I took college courses and graduated
early, at seventeen, and quickly moved Ogunquit Maine.
The restaurants and beauty of Maine solidified my career
in the service industry. Ogunquit was a wonderful place
to come out and experience my first relationship.
Still in his teens, Kimball started
exploring Europe in true teenage, backpacking style.
At eighteen, I found myself in Amsterdam and touring
throughout Europe with two great friends. The adventures
that followed showed me that every culture has a different
way of looking at things, and that really helped educate
me on myself. I picked olives in the hills of Crete
for nine dollars a day, slept on olive sacks in the
barn of the farmer, and ate goat cheese and salami for
weeks. I also remember fondly a hippy bus I took, from
Athens to Paris, for fifty dollars. It was an amazing
trip through the old Yugoslavia, over Mont Blanc, and
on to Paris. While I would never do that again, it was
perfect for the time.
For all his interesting tales, Kimball
is also a good listener, and an avid participator in
conversations. He learned respect for others at a young
age, and the influences of his extensive travels not
only opened his mind to other ways of life, but also
taught him the art of meaningful conversationa
skill set he would take with him throughout his professional
careers.
Before settling in Napa County, Kimball
worked as an event manager and catering director at
several fine hotels on both coasts. Planning corporate
retreats, business meetings, and weddings further rounded
out his hospitality experience and helped prepare him
for what he would eventually call his dream job: working
for himself. Learning about Kimballs past, it
struck me that nothing about his developing professional
life seemed forced. Rather, there is a flow to his story,
lessons and experiences that are built on one another,
in an orderly and unique fashion. Its almost as
if he were destined to be living what he calls the Champagne
Lifestyle in Northern California.
Kimball didnt stroll into this
tight-knit, egalitarian community of wine makers and
hospitality professionals unwilling to earn his place;
he had credentials to build and wine knowledge to expand.
My first job here in the wine country was working
with a 20-year veteran of the wine world, Melissa Teaff
Catering. We managed many intimate events at some of
the biggest mansions that dot this valley. I met many
of the movers and shakers of the wine world here, and
now call them my friends. I also worked with Leslie
Rudd of Dean and Deluca, selling wine and also as a
captain at their high-end steak house, Press, in St.
Helena. Kimball also studied wine paring and wine
service at The Culinary Institute of America to increase
his knowledge. Finally, with the wine world in his blood
and his hospitality connections ever increasing, Kimball
was poised, with business plan in hand, to begin working
for himself.
When
setting up his wine country concierge business, Kimball
didnt originally consider catering to gay clientele.
His original business model was more generalized, calling
the business Undiscovered Napa Sonoma. I had my
business plan together and my web site running under
UndiscoveredNapaValley.com, he says. But
then one day, I was speaking with a well-placed businessman
in Napa Valley about my business, and he made the assumption
that as a gay man, I was marketing to the gay community.
After many cups of coffee, he went on and on about how
smart I was to do that, since in his view, no one had
really pursued the gay travel market with any vigor.
I went home and secured an additional domain name to
attract gay visitors to my site, settling on www.GayNapaGetaways.com.
The rest, as they say, is history. His fortuitous
conversation over coffee that day steered him in a direction
he was bound to discover, sooner or later. Looking
back, the direction my business has gone has really
been the direction it was meant to go. The gay travel
community has a certain taste that I understand. Now
that most of my clients are from the gay community,
I take great pride in knowing that wherever they go,
theyll be welcomed with open arms and appreciated.
Thats important to me.
Kimballs flexible business model
took him in yet another direction, one he might have
missed were he not willing to alter his original marketing
focus. A few months after expanding my website
to directly reach the gay market, we achieved marriage
equality in California, and I decided to become a legal
officiant. Since then I have married and managed many
gay, wine country weddings. My happiest moments in life
are seeing a couple join in a life together. I plan
on being here when equality comes back to California,
and to position myself to be the premier same-sex wedding
coordinator from San Francisco to Napa.
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